Oliver took part in our Starlight Hike at St John's Hospice. He's kindly written about the experience.
Have you noticed how a child reacts if you ask them directly, ‘How do you feel about Granny dying?’ Most likely they will look away from you, change the subject, or just shrug and say, ‘Don’t know’. These are typical reactions from children whose cognitive capacity has not yet developed to the stage where they can understand and verbally articulate their feelings, like adults.
Everyone has a unique experience when someone close to them has died, and each person finds their own way through their feelings. As well as sadness and pain, there are also feelings of guilt, anger, resentment and confusion, and often a reassessment of the past or uncertainty about the future.
In this post, volunteer Emily shares how volunteering has helped her to transform her life.
"When I first started volunteering with Sue Ryder last year I had no idea that it would mean so much to me as it does today", says shop volunteer Emily Maybanks.