Walking 630 miles in memory of Anna - Paul's story

Anna and I always wanted to do the South West Coast Path, so I’m sure there will be some emotional bits on sections that I have previously walked with her especially as I pass the Saunton Sands hotel where we had our honeymoon.

My daughter Alex, son Max and I spent two weeks with Anna in Sue Ryder Leckhampton Court Hospice. That last week I slept there, holding Anna’s hand throughout the night. We were all with her when she passed away on January 30, just two months from diagnosis.

The care Anna received at the hospice was truly wonderful. My children and I could never find the words to express our gratitude. From the people who brought the breakfast, to the cleaners to the nurses and doctors, to the retired nurse who came in as a volunteer at weekends to play the piano, they were all just so caring, it was extraordinary.

Having my daughter and son to support me has really helped and my daughter gave birth to my first grandchild a granddaughter, Lennie, in February sadly just three weeks after Anna died. Anna had asked my daughters bump to ‘hurry up’ in the last few days. That was particularly hard for us all.

My clients have also all been very supportive. I do executive driving and every time I work, I tell someone about what I’m doing and how it helps me.

I was looking for someone to sponsor the hotels on the route and one of my clients, Ian and Janet MacKenzie, have kindly offered to do that through a charitable foundation. I have also had some people offer me the use of holiday accommodation in the area. Lots of people are planning to join me on the walk for different sections. One of my mates is going to join me for a whole week. It’s really taken off!

It’s important to me to do this walk in Anna’s memory and I think it will also help me to be out walking. We are calling it #FortheLoveofAnna. I’m at about £11,000 already but I’d like to raise £20,000 for Sue Ryder if I can. The team at Sue Ryder Leckhampton Court Hospice are just exceptional.