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Grieving on special occasions

Many people find important dates and special occasions, like anniversaries, birthdays or Christmas hard when they're grieving. Here we share some guidance and tips from our bereavement team to help you.

Sarah and Laura smile close into the camera.

I’ve realised it’s ok to be sad on Laura’s birthday or on the anniversary or any other day.

Sarah's Story: Coping after the death of a daughter
How to cope with death anniversaries
Whether you’re grieving for your mum, dad or someone else, find advice about how to prepare for and cope with a loved one’s death anniversary.
Grief and the New Year
The start of a new year can mean hope and renewal. But when you’re grieving, the return of January can sometimes bring difficult emotions with it too.
Coping with grief at Christmas
Whether it’s your first Christmas without a loved one, or you’ve been missing them for years, get tips and advice to help you cope with your grief and sadness.
Valentine’s Day and grief
Facing Valentine’s Day after the death of your partner can be a painful reminder of what's changed. Find advice on how to cope with the day without the person you love by your side.
Coping with grief on Mother’s Day
Whether you’re missing your mum, or you had a more difficult relationship, Mother’s Day and the lead up to it can trigger many different emotions if your mum has died.
Coping with grief on Father’s Day
Whether you’re missing your dad, or you’re dealing with complicated feelings after his death, we have advice to help you cope with grief during this time.
Katherine and her dad wearing paper hats

If you need to cancel or change plans give yourself permission to do that and don't be afraid of being honest with people.

Katharine, grieving her dad

Katharine's story - My first Christmas without dad

Supporting someone else

How to support someone grieving in the New Year
For someone who is grieving, the new year can sometimes act as an unwelcome reminder of what has changed in life. It can bring about feelings of sadness, jealousy or anger, and these emotions can often be heightened by the positive outlook pushed by society at the start of the year. 
Supporting your loved one through grief at Christmas
Need some support with knowing what to say in a Christmas card for someone coping with grief? We are here to help you support your loved ones.
What to write in a bereavement card
Sending a bereavement card is one of the first things we think about doing when we know that someone has died. But so many of us struggle with finding the right words to say when we write it.