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About bereavement and grief

Questions about grief

We answer some of the most common questions about grief.

How long does grief last?
There’s no timetable for how long grief lasts or how you should feel. On this page we explore “How long does grief last?” and the “grief timeline”.
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Answers to common questions about grief
When someone dies, the people close to them can feel a whole range of emotions. Here are some of the questions we frequently hear about grief and bereavement.
Are there stages of grief?
We explore the stages of grief theory in more detail, focusing on how it was developed and why it isn't truly reflective of the grieving process.

Grief hasn’t taken over my life, but it’s still there, and it’ll always be there.

Coping with losing my husband - Christine's story

Thoughts and feelings

There is no one way to feel after a bereavement. We explore some of the thoughts and feelings we most often see in people who are grieving, and offer guidance on how to cope.

What does grief feel like?
When it comes to grief, it can be difficult to predict how you might feel. Here, we talk about different experiences of grief and how it can feel.
Physical symptoms of grief
In this article, we explore how your body can sometimes react in ways that you might not understand or expect when you’re grieving.
Am I normal? Common thoughts and feelings in grief
Do you ask yourself ‘Is how I’m feeling normal?’ Here we explore some challenging thoughts and feelings many grieving people experience, such as “I thought I was doing fine, but now I feel worse” or “People want me to move on.”
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Grief and loneliness
Why do we feel alone in our grief and how can we cope? Read information from Sue Ryder's grief support team.
Alcohol and grief
Find out why some people turn to alcohol as a way to cope with their grief, and what support is available to you if you’re struggling with drinking.
Humour and grief
Jokes, comedy, and laughter are not just normal parts of grief, they can also help us feel better. Find out more about the link between humour and grief.

I was eating badly, I was sleeping worse, I couldn’t concentrate, I was having lots of nightmares and I was getting snappy. I started to notice changes in myself.

Opening up about grieving my parents - Ellie's story

Different types of grief

What is bereavement?
We explore the meaning of bereavement and share advice about what support is available to help you through your grief.
What is complicated grief?
Why you might be feeling a complicated mix of emotions as part of your grief and how you can get support.
What is anticipatory grief?
Anticipatory grief is grief you feel before someone has died. On this page we'll explore how it feels and how you can get support.
What is prolonged grief disorder?
What is prolonged grief disorder (sometimes called complex grief disorder or unresolved grief)? Why might someone might be diagnosed and what help is available for long-lasting, strong feelings of grief.
Grief in the LGBTQ+ community
During grief, there are certain challenges that someone who identifies as LGBTQ+ may face when trying to come to terms with their bereavement.

Grief Guide

Brain feeling foggy? Grief Guide offers short, clear articles to help you understand your grief.