Supporting someone else who has been bereaved

Everyone's grief is different. Here we share guidance and advice about supporting someone else who is grieving - both emotionally and practically - when they have been bereaved.

The support bereaved people say is most helpful

There are lots of ways you can support a bereaved person. These are things people who are grieving have told us they found most helpful after their loved one died.

How can you support someone who is grieving?

You may want to support a friend or family member after the death of a loved one, but not know how. Each person’s grief will be different, and what they need may change over time. Here are some things you can do for a bereaved person that may be helpful.

What to say to someone who has been bereaved

When someone dies, it can be hard to know what to say to those who were close to them. While each bereaved person’s experience will be different, our tips will give you ideas for how to help them feel heard and supported.

Supporting someone who is grieving over Christmas

We share advice to help you feel more confident about supporting someone through their grief this holiday season.

Start your Grief Kind journey today

Grief can be isolating and scary, and many don't have the support they need. Through Grief Kind we want to give more people the confidence to be there for others.

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Employers supporting staff through bereavement

Coping with a bereavement at work can be very difficult and emotionally fragile. As an employer, it's crucial that you provide a supportive, open and flexible environment for employees who are grieving. We provide practical advice so that you can support employees effectively.

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Sue Ryder Online Bereavement Community

If someone you love is dying or has died, our Online Bereavement Community is a place to share experiences, ask questions and chat to people who understand.

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Online Bereavement Counselling Service

If you are struggling to cope with the loss of a loved one, our online bereavement service provides free and professional video counselling, for support during the toughest times.

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Bereavement information

Whether you are struggling with your own grief or supporting others after a bereavement, we have practical advice and information to guide you through. You are not alone.

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